I Chose to Stay
These stories are Chapter 2 of each person’s Sonoma Journey. They continue the experiences introduced in the I Visited stories or I Was Born Here stories. They explain how they Chose Sonoma as their home.
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Across these 15 Chapter 2 stories, choosing Sonoma is less a single decision than a process. Some people arrived intending to stay; others came temporarily for work, family, a project, or a change in circumstances. Remaining required another step—finding work, securing housing, raising a family, adapting a plan, or recognizing that Sonoma offered the life they wanted.
Housing is often the turning point. Modest homes, fortunate timing, personal trust, unexpected opportunities, and periods of lower prices allowed storytellers to establish roots. Houses that were not always imagined as dream homes became the setting for decades of family life and community memory.
The stories also resist a neat idea of destiny. Careers shifted, relationships changed, temporary arrangements lasted, and original plans gave way to new possibilities. Choosing Sonoma often meant responding to what life presented and gradually making a place within it.
Belonging grew through ordinary routines: commuting, working, raising children, attending local schools, planting gardens or vineyards, returning to familiar businesses, and building friendships. Over time, Sonoma stopped being somewhere the storytellers visited and became the place through which they measured home, family, and the passage of years.
These chapters preserve memories of a smaller, more rural, and more affordable Sonoma while acknowledging how difficult some of the same paths would be today. Read after Chapter 1, they show how first encounters became lasting commitments—and how a place is chosen repeatedly through the life built there.
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These observations are based on the following 15 Chapter 2 stories:
1. Bill Blosser
2. Craig Adryan
3. John Moss
4. Don Lundgren
5. Emilia Cardon
6. Duane Asken
7. Charlotte Flynn
8. Greg Rose
9. Jim Kent
10. Walt Pannis
11. Lee Anne Birka
12. John Meserve
13. Janis Kobe
14. Chuck Kucserka
15. Patrick Garcia
Readers can begin with a Chapter 1 story for any of these people and continue through Chapter 2 to see how an initial encounter with Sonoma became a lasting home.
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These observations are drawn from the 15 Chapter 2 stories currently included in the I Chose Sonoma layer. They focus on how these individual storytellers moved from an initial connection with Sonoma to the practical and emotional work of making it home.
They are not intended to explain why everyone chooses Sonoma or to represent the experience of the entire community. Housing, work, family, timing, opportunity, and personal change appear differently in every Journey; the observations identify patterns without treating them as universal.
Chapter 2 is part of a continuing narrative. Chapter 1 records how each person first encountered Sonoma. Chapter 2 follows the decisions, adaptations, and routines through which belonging developed. Where a Chapter 3 is present, the Journey continues into participation and contribution.
As the collection grows, new patterns may emerge and these observations may change. Their purpose is to show how home is formed across this set of stories—not to define a single reason for staying or a single version of belonging.